tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1062697818935078109.post1723673641676178088..comments2010-01-23T08:57:28.440-08:00Comments on Life is a Rush: Father's DayPam Hickmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12288612116681948844noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1062697818935078109.post-40812599499569337092009-06-24T17:13:57.597-07:002009-06-24T17:13:57.597-07:00I know what you mean, my parents as you know are b...I know what you mean, my parents as you know are both gone and really mothers/fathers days are no so important to me, but remember they are for your son who thinks of you as you do your father. Try to remember although these holidays are sad ones for you they are the days your son will remember as well. On a side note, it's not guts that got me to tell as much as it was the fact that not telling had greater consequences. My ex is a heavy alcoholic and had just been released from treatment. He calls me to inform me he fell off the wagon. Although he was yelling, cusing and threatening me, his parents needed to know so they could help him out. (He lives in Oregon). He is now back in treatment, if I wouldn't have told he would just be a closet drunk still and who knows what would happen. Just think about the pros and cons to telling and listen to your gut. Usually you can't go wrong.Trishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12469535916813278576noreply@blogger.com